Her name is "Catherine Kieu Becker"  She looks Asian.  Definitely not Chelene Nightengale. 
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/wife-cu...ry?id=14055080
  I guess it's some kind of cultural thing.   A few years ago there was a movie called "Dirty Work" starring Norm Macdonald and Chris Farley.  Farley's character had his nose bitten off by a "Saigon whore."  Well they reconciled, fell in love and got married after he got his  new nose.  

  I like happy endings and this couple in Gardena may still work things out.     
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3BcIm5d6Pk